Sending out the right VIBES

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“All things are in a state of vibration. Vibrations from objects in our surroundings are constantly impinging upon us and carry to our senses a cognition of the external world. The vibrations in the ether act upon our eyes so that we see, and vibrations in the air transmit sounds to the ear.”- Max Heindel
Once I began to start meditating and reading more books on spirituality I began to realize that I am responsible for everything I bring into my life.  I can no longer be the victim or blame others for what I am not getting in my life.  As soon as I realized this I began to see all the things that I was manifesting.  For example, my husband and I went to the Hollywood Bowl this weekend to see Tony Bennet with our family members.  The whole time I was thinking “how cool would it be if Lady Gaga had a guest appearance”.  Guess what?  She did have a surprise guest appearance and it made my night.  The next day I had to most amazing body painting photo shoot with a lovely family.  I will share those photos in the next blog.  While I was painting each person, all I thought was “I manifested this” and it felt so good.

A book I am currently reading called “Super Accelerated Living: How to Manifest an Epic Life”  by Bentinho Massaro touches upon this subject so well.  He writes “Be aware of your vibration and choose yours.  Many people do not realize that they’re sending out signals all of the time.  Right now you’re emitting a certain vibration-based on how you’re defining something and how you feel about it–I bet your aren’t aware of it.  Right now is what you are sending out into Creation, into your reality.  You are are vibratory being; you are a state of consciousness.  So, what is your state of consciousness like?  What is it emitting, radiating?  What is it saying to the universe?”

If you are on Facebook or watch the news, choose wisely.  Social media can bring down our vibration and send us into a depressed funk and in a state of comparison.  There was a Harvard study done on happiness by Shawn Achor and he showed that there was a 25% chance of you having a bad day if you started listening to the news first thing in the morning.  I’m not saying you should avoid everything but to be more aware of what you put inside your mind.

Keep those vibes up and high because you never know where they can take you next.  You choose your reality, and you can master the state of your being at any given moment.  It is up to you–you have free will, you have choice.  Heres to manifesting all our dreams and making them into reality.  Namaste.Sheryl-156

Nothing can get in the way of PASSION

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“Some may say that I couldn’t sing, but no one can say that I didn’t sing.”

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   A few weeks ago I saw the movie Florence Foster Jenkins.  I never heard of her but I am so happy I got to know who she was.  I was watching the movie with my four-year-old daughter.  We both started laughing when we heard her sing.  But as the movie progressed, we began to see that this woman was someone who followed her bliss and didn’t give up.  Florence wanted to sing and become a singer and she did it.  It’s easier to sit in the crowd laughing and mocking the person who has the courage to go up and shine their light.  Even my daughter commented on how brave she was and that at least she was trying.  Her record was even the highest selling record of that time.

     I was at a fancy gallery a week ago and I introduced myself to the gallery owner as an artist.  He replied by saying “everyone in this town is an artist”.  I proceeded by putting my hands on my hips and sticking my chest out (superman pose) and told him “I AM an artist”.  He backed off pretty quickly.  A few years ago I would not have been able to do that.  I would have walked away feeling sorry for myself and maybe even given up the idea of pursuing my dreams of becoming an artist.  The person I am today will not allow ANYONE to take that away from me! No one has that right.  Yes there are many many artists in this city, in fact, in this world but there is no other artist like myself.  We are all so unique and have something so wonderful to offer.  The world needs us to shine and spread our light.  In fact, the next day another gallery contacted me and wanted me to stop by because they loved my work.

I also just completed my first children’s book written and illustrated by me!  Am I a writer? Not really but I tried.  Am I an illustrator?  Now I am.  I know that even when I write my blogs I probably have a ton of grammatical errors but guess what?  I don’t give a SHIT!  I am learning.  I am trying.  I am Sheryl Benjy and I am an artist.  I am an art teacher.  I am a life coach.  I am a writer.  I am a children’s book illustrator.  I am that I am and so much more.  Who are you?  Leave a comment below and don’t forget to follow your bliss.  Namaste.

Purpose and Passion

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A BEAUTIFUL RETREAT FOCUSING ON PURPOSE AND PASSION

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.” – Steve Jobs

Last weekend I was a part of an amazing retreat in Ojai that was started by a good friend and yoga instructor Feri Ebrahimi.  That painting above is a representation of her.  This was our second year leading the retreat.  I can’t tell you how inspired I was to be in the presence of so many wonderful women.  The theme of the retreat was finding your purpose and passion.  I led a life coaching and vision board session as well as an art session.   Yrma Wilson did reiki healing.  Allie Bright led the yoga nidra portion.  There was so much inspiration and healing all in one little weekend.

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All the women left feeling rejuvenated and with big smiles on their faces.  I left realizing that this is why I do what I do.  I also got out of my comfort zone and did something that made me a bit nervous.  I had to talk in front of 20 women about my life story and be vulnerable in front of many people I did not know.  It was my first time leading a life coaching session and it was so invigorating!  I have also led many art classes in front of groups and that has also made me nervous.  Was it perfect, no.  Was it from my heart, yes.  I think that is the key to anything new you ever want to try.  Just be yourself and let it all come from the heart.  If you are afraid of doing something that is out of your comfort zone then that is more reason to go and do it.

I know last year at the retreat when I had to speak in front of all those women I was shaking in my boots.  This year I was better.  It’s about practice and exposure.  I’m not sure where I will be going with my life coaching or with my art.  I do know that I will put my 100% in every opportunity I get.  Now it’s your turn.  What makes you nervous?  Is it speaking in front of large crowds, is it taking up a new class or something so small but you make it seem so much bigger than it is.  Share them with me!

 

 

The Healing Power of Art and How Being Creative Can Heal You

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“Art provides a healing force which aids both the maker and the viewer…” -Richard Newman

I have healed myself in so many different ways through art.  After having my second child I went through bouts of depression.  I sometimes didn’t know how to get out of it.  It was a struggle.  Through therapy and spiritual work I was able to slowly find my way.  But after my third child, I really started to paint again and I began to see the effects it had on me both emotionally and spiritually.  My husband noticed it as well.  I began to heal that part of me that needed so much nurturing and it was through creating.  We all came into this world to create, it’s in our DNA.  I went to a reiki healing class and the picture above reveals the healing power of reiki through art.  It was such an inspiring class.  I realized we all have so much power right in the palms of our hands.  There is this energy force we all possess that is ready to come out be activated.

I went to the bookstore today and I bought the book The Vein of Gold by Julia Cameron.  She also wrote The Artists Way.  In it she writes “At its essences, art is an alchemical process.  By practicing art, by living artfully, we realize our vein of gold.  What I refer to as “the vein of gold,” Egyptians referred to as “the golden ray.”  It is the individual, indisputable, indestructible connection to the divine.  The vein of gold in every life is located in the heart of that life.  The heart is the origin of creative impulses.  If that heart has been wounded, it must be healed for our vein of gold to flow freely.  As we travel further and further into our own interiors, we will be taking the dross of our lives–the disappointments, wounds, and burdens-and we will make them into gold through the power of creativity.  All of our lives are already golden–in potential–if we are willing to do the necessary work of transformation.”  YES, YES, YES!! This is what I have always been talking about in most of my blog posts.  This is essentially everything the Gold Necklace is about.  That is why I put the symbol of the gold necklace on all the women in my paintings.

 We ALL possess that inner potential to create something magnificent.  Not just women but men as well.  My husband sometimes complains that he has not found his talent.  But I always tell him that it is there and he just has to find the patience and time to dig for it.  Once it is found he can heal and shine.  Now go out there and find your “vein of gold!”

Stop making excuses and start CREATING!

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“To truly become a fulfilled person, be prepared to undergo every kind of trial.  Without the pressure, the fight, the work, it is impossible to transform yourself.  Without the struggle, there is no reward.  We’re all like lumps of coal: If you simply dig the coal from the ground, it’s nature doesn’t change.  You must apply thousands of pounds of pressure to transform into a diamond.” -Karen Berg

How many of you come up with a list of excuses to why you haven’t started something?  It’s too hard, it’s too much work, I don’t have enough time, my kids, my work, the housework…blah blah blah.  STOP!!  Now go write down one goal right now that you have had on your mind.  It could be as simple as wanting to take a cooking class.  Now make a list under that goal of all the steps you need to take to get there.  Time yourself for 5 minutes.  Now every morning get up and do one thing to get you closer to your goal.  That’s it!  Easy.  Don’t overthink things, just do it.  Move.  

Ten years ago, my father left my mom and she was all alone and had to take care of herself.  It was heartbreaking.  We all played the victim role, why?  Because it’s an easy role to play.  We decided to stop that pattern and decided she had to get back on her feet again.  I used to work at a daycare and I knew all the ins and outs of one.  So we started with a small daycare.  It was HARD at first.  There were so many disappointments along the way.  But we had to keep moving, we had no choice.  With time, a lot of work, and patience my mom made her daycare into one of the best daycares in town.  She has a waiting list and the parents and the kids love her.  She transformed her business from that lump of coal into a diamond.

I have observed her along the way and have taken in all that she has done to get there.  Now I am trying to grow my own business.  It is still in it’s toddler stage unlike my mom who has her baby in the double digits (10 years strong).  I am patient though.  I am enjoying the process even with all the challenges and difficulties.  The rewards are so much sweeter in the end when there is a challenge.  So go out there my friend and conquer the world!  Baby steps is all it takes, baby steps.  

Manifesting your dreams

Sheryl-181I really think you can manifest your dreams. You can manifest your destiny. If you want something hard enough and you’re willing to work for it, I think you can get it. I truly believe that.” – Billy Magnussen

There are no excuses, stop making excuses.  Where are you going with your life?  Is it someplace magical and positive?  If we focus our thoughts on being sick and bad news, guess what??  That is all life will give us.  But if we focus on the good and have gratitude for all that has  been given to us then we will thrive and be given so much more.  It’s not just about making your vision board, it’s about taking action as well.

I remember when I first started painting again my art mentor told me I had to paint 10  paintings.  I just thought “how the hell am I going to do that”.  I could have stopped there and just given up.  I just painted and painted and stopped thinking about what would happen in a week, a month or a year.  I didn’t even know what I was going to do with all those paintings.  I just knew I had to start and get the momentum going.  Over 150 plus paintings later, I am now the artist I always envisioned myself to be and it feels good!  If I didn’t take action then I would not be where I am today.

If you can just spend 10 minutes a day envisioning what you would like your life to be like, do it!  What is it that you have always imagined and dreamed for yourself?  What is holding you back?  Take the time to write them down.  I am a true believer in writing down everything you want to manifest in your life.   I have done it for years and have seen so many of my visions and dreams come true.  I still have a long beautiful list and I encourage you to make one too.  Dig down deep for the gold within and shine baby! Namaste

The BEAUTY of failure

 

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“There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” – Colin Powell

I learned a very big lesson in illustrating a book with an author.  To do my research and educate myself beforehand to know my rights and how to protect my artwork. I should have had a written contract so there was an open line of communication. Well, there was a lot I should have done but failed to do. There is credit for my work in the acknowledgement section in the back of the book but that was not my vision.

I had a vision of my name being on the cover as “Illustrated by: Sheryl Benjy”. But unfortunately, in reality, that did not happen. My mom always asks, “what did you learn from this experience”. I learned so much from this and even though I got burned, I now know what to do if I am faced with this again. That is the beauty of life. We might fail and fail again but we learn through those failures and get right back up to do it again. Success is right around the corner and within our reach, we just need to get past those hurdles.

I am moving on though and I am in the process of illustrating and writing my own children’s book! It will be called Spirit’s Magical Journey. I can’t wait to share it with the world. I don’t think I would have done that had I not gone through this journey. So I thank the author for that and I hope her book is one big success. IT would have been more successful with my name on it but hey, to each his own.

Where have you failed but got right back up? Share your story with me! Would love to hear from you!